It can be hard to move past a relationship , but accepting the "next" is essential for personal growth . Allowing yourself to feel the sadness is necessary , but don't dwell in the rearview mirror. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N4FBtGP7zSs&list=OLAK5uy_kaqfjK_D00GAl1qeI8R1YmIE36j-RCLho&index=1